Do not match any negative stereotypes, get a hot body, clear up your skin, and fix your hair. These four will do more for your sex appeal than anything else by FAR. Then, copy what celebrities wear

It’s easy. The rest of the guide just provides you with lots of detail so you can’t fuck up. And yes, it’s possible. Here’s some proof

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bad [], better [2], best [3]. First two were board game master, Ke Jie. Last guy is someone else. Notice the transition. The further away from hideous girly hair, nerdy glasses, you went the better you looked.

This guy did this in two years. After one year, he would already have a very good body.

Fashion Style

Core rules:

● I must say it again, Do not match any negative stereotypes, get a hot body, clear up your skin, and fix your hair. These four will do more for your sex appeal than anything else by FAR.

Scrawny bodies hold up and fill clothes poorly and everything looks like shit on you. Think about women. We will pick a hot woman in a t-shirt over an ugly wearing $4000 in designer labels.

● Wear classics. Don’t follow trends, which are often ugly and temporary, and a waste of money. Copy Hollywood’s leading men, but add your own variations. Notice, they all look similar in films with a modern setting. They have teams of stylists.

Note: I would’ve urged you to copy Asia’s leading men but they’re currently led by androgynous female repellent.

● Look like you belong to a gang. Ever watch those HK films about triads? Look something like that. They blend into society but they have a bit of an edge. For the most part they are understated and refined especially at the “officer” level. You instinctively know not to fuck with them.

● Stop making it worse with your girly bowl cuts, perms, glasses, smiley peace signs, and other forms of auto-castration.

● Show off some skin - neck, clavicles, chest, forearms. These are the same areas you should build. Also shoulders and traps. They give a big visual impact. Easiest way is to use shirts [many kinds], t-shirts, and tank tops.

● You can’t pull off most styles. Hot men can afford to wear hideous crap and have girly hair because their high masculinity balances it out. Most of you are not hot and your results will be much much worse. See what you think you are vs reality. Use what works for you.

● One simple test - Ask yourself “Will people laugh at me 400 years from now for wearing this?” Certain looks stand the test of time and they are all functional: buzzcuts, shaved faces, slicked back hair, etc. Don’t end up like one of these clowns below. lol

Things to do:
● Get tailored clothes that fit (at the very least, buy ethnic brands suited for you).
● Use darker colors to accentuate light skin or lighter colors to accentuate darker skin.
● The 3 colors that women find most attractive on men are (starting with the best) blue, black, and grey. Oddly, they hate orange. Also add white for versatility.
● Look like you’re doing well. Not necessarily rich, but well-off.
● Wear appropriate clothing for your environment, event, age, etc.
● Show that you care and respect yourself - even better if you can show you are successful.
● Show your best physical traits and hide your worst physical points. Working out is the only cure to this. Do not be lazy. Wear better fitting jeans and shorter tops if you have a nice butt [if not: wear longer tops and slightly looser fitting pants]. Wear tshirts if you have nice arms [if not: wear long sleeves with thicker fabric]. roll up your shirt sleeves if you have nice forearms [if not: don’t roll up sleeves], unbutton the top of your dress shirt or wear tank tops if you have nice upper chest [if not: cover up more], etc.

Things to avoid
● short-sleeved shirts like 3/4 lenth
● bulky items in pants pockets like overloaded wallets and big set of keys
● all black. It looks too threatening. If you must then at least use shades of black or grey so you don’t look like a burglar.
● ditch childish styles past your mid 25’s. You should look like an adult by then.
● Dress above average vs your social peers (not your friends, but your school, work place, etc) but still look like you belong.- eg leader of the pack - not a follower.
● No sneakers + blazers. Looks childish.
● brand names and expensive hidden features [precious materials like platinum, silver, endangered specie’s wool, hand stitched, “artisan”, “limited edition”, special watch movements, pricey art/design because it’s so subjective, etc]. Almost no one you meet [unless you’re ultra elite] can tell.

Hair

You guys need to stop looking like women. I have never seen another group of men [East Asian] try so hard to look unfuckable. You are doing glam metal levels of cringe.

You may think you look like some super cool guy like K from King Of Fighters?? Wake up!

K from King of Fighters [1], not K from King of Fighters [2]

Ask yourself one question:

Does my desired hair style look cooler than a buzzcut?

If your hair style can’t beat a buzzcut then just default to a buzzcut because you can at least look like a man instead of a girl.

Things to Avoid
● bowl cuts. I don’t care what kpop tells you, it’s retarded. No woman outside of Asia sees you as a man unless she’s specifically into kpop hardcore.
● perms
● long bangs

Look at this image of the computer-averaged faces of men around the world. East Asian men are the only group dumb enough to feminize themselves with long bangs to such a suicidal degree. No other race of men does this to themselves.

Full image of different men’s faces around the world

Ok a few of them are fine, but many key representatives [Korea, Japan, China] of East Asian men are not.

I cut my hair and I feel so much better

● long girl hair
● gelled spiky hair
● long hair
● dying your hair. It is expensive and you often pair it with really girly looks so it’s sexless and hideous.

Things to Do
● Get a haircut that makes your face look slim and oval in shape. Your sides need to be short and the top short to medium length.
● Use something like Redken Glass serum [looks very natural by adding weight to your hair ] or hairspray or a bedhead type product. Avoid gels. They look too fake.
● Wash and style your hair before you leave your place in the morning.
● Use this chart to pick the right hair product[s]

How to style hair

The following advice is from someone who looks great

ysl_oneLately I’ve been getting messages asking how and what I use to do my hair. I have thick stubborn straight hair and it takes a lot of work to stylise. I wash it and blow dry it back with a brush. Use straighteners to blend it in the direction I want it to go. Using my hands I brush in with a bit of ‘Schwarzkopf got2b beach matt paste’ and to hold it together with some hairspray. Life isn’t perfect but your hair can be, have a good one

Source: https://www.instagram.com/p/_NNeKuSOJc/

Asian vs West with girly hair

Westerners can get away with girly looking hair more easily because it’s obvious they are not women. They have plenty of facial hair and coarser features to balance it out. Most Asian men look very youthful. It’s a blessing and a curse. Unless you have very masculine features to balance out the girly hair avoid it.

Examples of good Asian hair

Last one - Not Asian but good if you have the face for it.

See many more examples of good and bad hair.

Facial hair

A lot of us can’t pull off facial hair. It looks repulsive.

This says “I’m not manly enough to grow thick facial hair.” [1,2,3,4], Says I look like a slob [5]

Unless you have strong beard genetics like these guys below then just shave it so people can’t laugh at you.

Strong beard genes.

Actor, Louis Koo, does either beard or none. Full [1,2], None [3,4]. He rarely shows up in gross quasi beards.

Skin

I want to rewrite this section but prefer people with expertise write it instead.
Ask a dermatologist and use Accutane if you have chronic acne. I don’t know if this actually works. I think most people have diet
problems that cause acne. Switch to a vegan diet and look into mercury chelation (see Andy Cutler). I recommend people to fix their
diet and only use medication as a last option.

Use m2 lotion to fix hyperpigmentation from acne if you have it

link to??? harke’s skin bible. wash once a day to avoid stripping away all moisture. actually, depends on their skin condition

Other
● Never pick or pop pimples. That can leave scars.
● Avoid excessive sunlight because that breaks down skin and ages you rapidly. If you want sun then enjoy it in the mornings and evenings.

Grooming and Hygiene

● Brush and floss your teeth in the morning, night, and after each meal / snack. Your teeth are super important to your health.
● Bathe daily.
● Shave daily unless you have and want to shape your facial hair.
● Cut your finger nails every 3 weeks.
● Cut your toe nails every four weeks.
● Cut your hair every two to three weeks. Find some cheap place and just do touch ups to save money.
● Trim your nose hair every 4 weeks.
● Trim your ear hair every[I don’t have it so I don’t know.]
● Trim your pubic hair every 2 weeks if you’re getting intimate with women.
● I wouldn’t tweeze my eyebrows. I’d tweeze if they were a unibrow though.

Compensating for your body

● short - vertical lines for top and pants

● Skinny

• horizontal lines for top
• thicker material like ribbed cotton, wool, puffy winter jacket
• layering
• Brighter colors

● Fat

• dark colors like black
• Thinner material like linen, thin non-ribbed non-textured cotton

● Too many girls hitting on you

• kpop bowlcuts

● Allergic skin

• cotton + nylon or spandex mix [not spandex alone]
• avoid wool
• avoid cashmiere

How much style is enough?

Look better than the average in your peer group [school, workpace, social circle, etc]. Many women have type(s) that they like. Try to look like a positive stereotype (gang member, rocker, surfer, etc) unless you have a good personal style already.

How to look stylish?

It just means you look well put together. Personality is different.

Focus on fit, color coordination, fabric, and accessories. Each look you create should be a theme such that one can look at you and conclude “he’s going to the gym, on a date, business meeting, etc”. Accessories are the key that adds personality [see below].

Key looks:
● lounge - look at romantic films
● casual / streetwear - I have no good source yet. Common sources are plagued with ugly crap.
● business - look at media about wall street, triad, mafia, and cartels.
● sport - look at media about street hoops, boxers, surfers, skaters, snowboarders, [optional but recommended and be careful. Lots of ugly shit.]
● action / military - look at media about modern assassin, black ops, military, special forces [optional but recommended]

Mix and match compatible pieces. Do not wear camo with your blazer for example.

How to show off your personality?

Personality is what makes you unique. Driving an expensive car is stylish, but the paint job, interior finishes, and mods give it personality. Undertand that you only add minor variations to express personality. There’s no need to look like a freak.

● color coordination
● accessories
● uniqueness [ordered from most effective to least]

• art [see cultural factors]
• material / texture / pattern
• function - eg a watch can be a cutesy Swatch brand, camping, sporty, military, aviation, naval, business, etc
• method of wear - eg scarves can be worn in many ways, shirts and blazer can be unbuttoned simultaneously, zipped up / half zipped / unzipped cardigan, tucked vs untucked, rolled up dress shirt sleeves, popped collar [Be careful. Easy to look like a douchebag]
• layering
• cut - some shirts are rounded, sharp, boxy, etc

Examples of uniqueness
● inner lining uses different color / material than outside

● custom drawstrings / laces / paracord / shoe laces on jackets, sweatpants, hoodies, and shoes

Paracord hoodie strings

● custom decal / embroidery on baseball cap

Caution: Logo for Kojima Productions [1], marijuana / drug [2], and sueded cotton cap [3].

● The many variations of oxford dress shirts [this doesn’t even cover other styles or ethnic types like Chinese style]
Good guide http://theidleman.com/manual/advice/how-to-wear/best-oxford-shirts-men/. Backup: http://i.imgur.com/1Vm4A54

Cultural Factors:

● our language. The characters look really cool especially when done by master calligraphers [make sure you get accurate translations]

● our animals [real and mythical]

dragon [1], tiger [2], phoenix [3], kylin [4], red panda [5], pandas [6]

● our architecture

“pagoda” traditional Chinese roof [1], “torii” Japanese gateways [2],

Chinese furniture patterns [1], India pattern [2]

● our art style and miscellaneous

scrolls [1], Chinese paintings [1], bansai [2], our unique environment like bamboos [1], thin vertical mountains [3]

Your arsenal:

Ordered from highest roi and easiest roi:

● 2 blazers
● 2 jeans - dark colors are safe
● 3 dress pants - wool, cotton, blend
● 2 dress shoes - brown, black, boot
● casual / sneaker / skater shoe / canvas shoe
● 3-4 shirts - Chinese collar, white, black, charcoal, henley, long sleeve, "raglan"
● 2-4 sweaters - cardigans, pull over sweater
● 6 tank tops - varying colors and textures - this is where you can splurge just because it’s cheap, very versatile, and gives understated sex appeal.
● 6 t-shirts - same variety as tank tops

Other pieces
● scarf (not the feminine kind that that are being worn like necklaces)

● 10 accessories

• 2-3 belts - 1-2 leather, 1 sporty made out of non leather like canvas
• watch (1)
• necklace (1)
• bracelet (1)
• scarves (2 depends on your location)
• pocket squares (2)

● baseball cap or some other cap
● get 1 suit if you need it for job interviews
● get 3 ties if you need it for work.

Regarding maintenance, the first things to wear out are likely t-shirts and tank tops. You shouldn’t need to replace the other stuff until they look obsolete, but since you’re buying classics, that shouldn’t be a problem. I ignore vests and polos. I personally find them associated with boredom.

See Key looks from media to understand that most looks consist of only these pieces in mainstream films. It’s what works.

Your Arsenal in detail

Your Arsenal - shirts

● dress shirts - Good guide http://theidleman.com/manual/advice/how-to-wear/best-oxford-shirts-men/. Backup: http://i.imgur.com/1Vm4A54

Oxford cotton dress shirt is a staple

Chinese styled shirt

There are variations in collar sizes, buttons, cut, etc. These work with blazers well.

● long sleeve [like a t-shirt but long sleeve]

● long sleeve with 1/4 button down AKA “henley” [like a t-shirt but long sleeve - ribbed cotton]

Your Arsenal - “light” shirts [lol I don’t have a better name]

● tank top

● t-shirt

● baseball two tone shirt AKA “raglan” [short or long sleeve]

Your Arsenal - “heavy”

Blazer and cardigan sweater are key. They are very versatile.

● blazer

• Cardigan sweater [pair with tank top or t-shirt or dress shirt. scarf optional]. Extremely versatile and adds bulk for skinny guys.

The different textures are examples of uniqueness

● pull over sweater

● military jacket [key is the pockets and tough(er) material]

● military overcoat

● Military camoflauge jacket [optional. It’s young and associated with street wear]

● leather jacket [really need the right body for it]

● overcoat

Get the first if you have sufficient height, the second if you’re wider, and third if you’re shorter.

Your Arsenal - pants

● Dress pants [wool]

thin and thick versions

● Jeans [dark is my preference, no holes, slightly pre-worn is ok]

If possible, get two pairs when you find the perfect jeans. It’s a pain to find.

● Casual pants [sueded cotton are my personal preference. I recommend it over khakis]
● Cargo pants [canvas, cotton, cotton, wool]
● Sweat pants
● Military camoflauge pants [optional. It’s young and associated with street wear]

Your Arsenal - Shoes

under $200 is fine. Girls notice shoes if they look like shit so look decent and you’re good. You could spend more on high end and they will last very long, but it’s not worth your money or time at your age.

● nice leather shoes - lounge / business. May not be needed if you have boots already.

Oxford lace-ups

● Boots - lounge / business

Desert boot [1], Chelsea boot - suede [2], Chelsea boot - leather [3]. You can just get Chelsea boots. No need to get deserts also.

● canvas / sneakers - casual / sport

Skater [1,2,3] canvas [4], slip-on [5,6]

Note - avoid Airwalk. They break fast.

● sandals [optional - only for beach]

Your Arsenal - misc stuff

● belt [leather] - Infinite fits are good though if you can’t find the right sized belt.

● belt [canvas - optional for sporty looks]

● watch - These are all under $200 USD (maybe even under $100 USD) is fine. Very few will be able to tell.

● Glasses - AVOID FOR ASIANS. IT’S A HUGE REDFLAG THAT YOU’RE A SEXLESS NERD STEREOTYPE.

● Shades [black, red, tingEd] Avoid big silly ones. Aviators have a bad connotation with douchebag, but they do look good.

I included the face compatibility chart below for shades. I have no idea if this chart is right. [in-exhaustive]

● Baseball cap - I showed a few above already.

● Scarf [black, grey, navy blue, burgandy, maroon]

Remember when I said a key rule is “will they laugh at you 400 years from now?”? Heed my wisdom.

Never wear a scarf just for looks. Remember, you should wear things, typically, for functionality. Scarfs in summers just screams “try hard”.

how to wear a scarf - safest options are top-middle and bottom-right

● socks - They should match pants. Use simple stuff. No one will care.
● gloves

Tweed/Leather [1], Leather [2], Fingerless [3], Convertible mitten/fingerless [4], Leather [5]

● fountain pen - This seems like overkill, Jinhao makes very nice pens and most retail under $ 15 USD. It’s a steal and a quick way to differeniate yourself.

● umbrella - Get one size smaller than a golf umbrella.

● ear rings - [optional]
● finger rings - [optional]

Your Arsenal - Jewelry / Bling

● jade - goes with dark colors
● gold - goes with dark colors

● necklace [steel, gun metal, charcoal, gold, jade, Buddhist beads] - see bracelets. They’re almost the same
● bracelet [steel, gun metal, charcoal, gold, jade, Buddhist beads]

Where to find unique items?

Based on my research, this is unnecessary but if you insist then…

● Shop non-mainstream such as foreign brands. Foreign = / = expensive, it just means a different source, whose culture introduces different looks.
● Get Custom made. You know about tailors, but stuff like this is also possible. Not sure of the cost though…

● Search laterally. Lots of clothing here are examples already [gym, military, indsturial / work wear, hiking / camping, sports which can be further split by type].

● Look at video game character designs especially fighting games, Yakuza, rpg, and the firms Capcom / SNK.

Key looks from media

High net worth entertainers have teams of stylists to make them sexually appealing. Just copy what works. It’s easy.

Examples of combos

zipper cardigan + blazer
blazer + tank top
cardigan + shirt
blazer + shirt
blazer + henley
tank top + camo / cargo pants
blazer + pull over sweater
long sleeve shirt + different colored t-shirt on top [optional to have artwork]
overcoat + dress shirt
overcoat + cardigan + t-shirt
overcoat + "henley"
overcoat + pull over sweater
overcoat + scarf drapes down your chest
blazer + Chinese shirt + scarf tied around your neck

Examples of color combos

● muted gold [buttons, tie] on black / blue blazer
● gunmetal dark silver [buttons, tie, necklace, bracelet, cufflinks] over black [blazer, dress short, long sleeve shirt, henley]
● Charchoal / black [jacket, shirt] + burgandany / maroon [scarf, tie]
● navy blue shirt + black blazer
● grey + black
● dark blue [jeans] + white / black / grey / dark red + brown [Buddhist beads]

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Let’s see what westernized women [including westernized Asian probably] think of the Asian male “look” that is popular inside Asia. In short, they think it’s girly, not manly, and unattractive.

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Who’s Hotter: K-pop Stars vs Korean Movie Stars | 서양여자들이 생각하는 멋있는 한국 남자스타들 | Kポップスターvs韓国人俳優（日本語字幕変換） - YouTube

The majority of you match negative stereotypes such as a nerd, geek, scrawny, girly, girl hair, etc. So many Asian men do not look or behave like masculine men. You look like female repellent.

To most non-Asian women [I suspect to many Asian women themselves] you guys are the male equivalent of…

What do women find sexy / attractive ?

What women want is ultra simple. Look at what women would pay for under full anonymity by looking at the male escort market. This is a market where she is paying to literally sleep with men. This is her unfiltered sexual desire.

Male Sex workers

You can also look at:

Male Masseuses

And no, it’s not some “niche market”! Those guys work in the following cities all across Asia. You will find a very similar pattern repeated all over the globe by women who pay for sex. They want manly, muscular, men - not “e-sports” champions and sensitive “indoorsmen”.

Shanghai
Beijing
Shenzhen
Guanzhou
Hangzhou
Chongqing
Chengdu
Suzhou
Xi’an
Xiamen
Kunming
Qingdao
Yiwu
Ningbo
Hongkong
Singapore
Kuala Lumpur
Bangkok
Wuhan
Dalian
Sanya
Changsha
Zhuhai
Dongguan
Macau

Male Underwear Models

Male Pageants

Male dancers

I couldn’t find pictures.

Athletes that went viral

Internet goes wild for handsome Chinese Olympic swimmer Ning Zetao and his incredible physique

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3724760/Internet-goes-wild-handsome-Chinese-Olympic-swimmer-Ning-Zetao-incredible-physique.html

ALMOST NONE OF THEM LOOK LIKE THE HIDEOUS HALF MAN HALF WOMAN LOOK THAT IS POPULAR IN EAST ASIA NOW.

● almost all of them have muscles / look like fighters
● all of them wear no glasses
● all of them cut their hair short to medium length, wash, and style it

The current East Asian “look” = sexual suicide world wide.

STOP LOOKING LIKE HIDEOUS HALF MAN FEMALE REPELLENT

What you think you look like

You think you look like attractive men.

What you actually look like

You actually look like total nerds, dweebs, sensitive ladies, IT support staff, and awkward virgins.

Wake up!!! Even many male celebrities look hideous with this style.

What chance does the common man have? Stop deluding yourselves.

Bro, I am a male celebrity and even I can’t pull this look off. Take a hint.

Bowl cuts are sexual suicide

Stop it. Just stop it. Don’t ever get bowl cuts.

Your bowl cuts are sexual suicide everywhere outside of Asia.

The only other place I have seen bowl cuts is by an actor who plays a mental retard in the comedy film, Dumb and Dumber.

That’s not a typo. Read it until it sinks in. Your “fashion” is associated with mental retardation in the West.

The bowl cuts, long bangs, long hairs, and other hideous shit doesn’t work. Even when it does work because of a very handsome face, he’s still harming himself by looking less than optimal.

I studied lots of transformations of major Western male celebrities - before they were popular and when they became very popular. I’m unsure if the same applies to Asian male celebrities. However, once you are competing inside Western nations for women, you need to stick to what works in the West.

This guy lost 2-3 out of 10 points

He is an 8 to 8.5 but thanks to his hideous styling he is a 6. He has long thick eyebrows, good hairline, nice eyes, and nice teeth.

This will become obvious as you go through the following examples.

Jang Keun Suk [actor]

girly

[1] Hot
[2] Better than the girly look but wearing eyeliner and hair still bit girly.

Notice how he has a very good face, but he stupidly hides it with the long hair up above.

Zhao Lei - Chinese male model

nerdy

Borderline only because he has a nice face, but it’s sub-optimal to the shorter hairstyles directly below.

hot

Terry He [actor, singer,]

girly

less girly

nerd

hot

Hao Yun Xiang [super model]

Nerd

Hot

Won Bin [actor]

[1] girly
[2] hot

Siwon Choi [famous actor / sex symbol]

Nerd

Girly

Hot

Louis Koo [famous actor / sex symbol]

He has god tier looks so he can pull off all kinds of weird hair and still look awesome but most of you look nothing like him. most CELEBRITIES look nothing like him. stop thinking hair applies equally to everyone.

[1,2] Nerdy
[3] Somewhat nerdy

[1,2,3] Girly

[all] hot

Jay Park [famous singer / sex symbol]

Nerd

Girly

hot

Jared Leto [famous actor / sex symbol]

Psychopath. I’m almost certain he’s a serial killer. Look at those lifeless cold eyes. Well, well, well…what do we have here.

Note: I didn’t plan this. I wrote this guide in 2016. This just popped up on the news in 2018.

Girly

Hot

This is very important. This is a HUGO BOSS fragrance Ad. Notice the giant shift in styling? These ads are designed for maximum sex appeal. Guess what? He doesn’t look like a girl here.

Believe it. it’s the same guy in the film, The Suicide Squad [2016]. Incidentally, this is how I feel when I look at your girly / nerdy styling.

Brad Pitt [famous actor / sex symbol]

Nerd. If someone as good looking as him can become a geek with just glasses and hair, think how nerdy looking most of you are…

Almost hot, but the mustache is ugly.

Nerdy then “girly but hot” because he has a very square masculine face.

Hot

George Clooney [famous actor / sex symbol]

[1] Nerd
[2,3] Girly
[4,5,6] Hot

Zak Malikyn [boy band singer]

[1] girly
[2,3] hot

David Beckham [famous soccer player / sex symbol]

Girly to decent

Zac Efron [actor]

Girly to hot

Matthew Lewis [actor]

Hideous to average

Calvin Harris [some dj]

Hideous to average

Definitely avoid any and all girly, nerdy haircuts that East Asian men are currently famous for. The good looks section has a few Asian men with girly hair. Don’t copy the hair. I’m just telling you what clothes look good.

Core sources

● marketers [commercials / advertisements]
● male sex symbols / heart throbs [celebrities, models, viral sensation]
● entertainment [films, tv, music videos, video games]
● vice [male escorts, male masseuses, male dancers, male underwear models - runway fashion is unreliable]

I rely on these because they frequently use sex to sell. Video games are interesting because certain genres have lots of cool ideas that can be adapted. See fighting games, Yakuza, role planning games, and certain developers like Capcom (Street Fighter series), SNK (King of Fighters series), Square-Enix (Final Fantasy), and Kojima Productions.(Metal Gear Solid series).

I am skeptical towards fashion and gossip magazines. It’s hard to tell if they pushing certain looks for advertisers because I rarely see those styles work in real life.

Good Looks Level 1 - Celebrities / Entertainment

These examples are from films and tv shows, where the actors have highly paid stylists to turn them into sex symbols. A few looks keep showing up…

● pull over sweater

● dress shirt

● cardigan sweater

cardigan + t-shirt

blazer + cardigan

● blazer + t- shirt or shirt or “henley”

● military / workwear

● business suit

● overcoat + dress shirt

I’m too lazy, but you’d find many examples assassin / spy type films

● long sleeve 1/4 button down AKA “henley”

● Misc

Good Looks Level 2 - Fashion magazines / advertisements

[1] He needs a better body for this look, but general style is good. Shirt is bit too fancy and too many accessories.
[2] Good but sub optimal. He would be labelled nerd in the West even though he’s very handsome. Could do much better with no glasses.
[3] belly area looks like a fanny pack, jeans bit skinny, hair is not that girly but he has a good face to help.

Good Looks Level 3 - Amateur / Instagram models

Street wear and fitness wear done well
https://www.instagram.com/ysl_one/

Note: I’m not a fan of the cuffed ankles / tight pants, but he has a great body to pull it off.

Good Looks Level 4 - Gangsters / Triad / Mafia

Here are some Asian gangsters fighting in Boston. That’s closer to how you should dress. Notice, you instinctively know they are bad boy types. It’s in their deliberate movements, no glasses, hair, mature clothing, and even the way they wear it [some are unbuttoned, untucked, turned collar]. The quality of their women is high. No dweebs here. This can and should be you.

Good Looks Level 5 - Randoms

Buff so clothes look good, good hair, clothes are comfy to touch it seems

Bad Looks Level 1 - excessive fashion

Justin Timberlake, wearing too many layers.

Bad Looks Level 2

[1] scrawny, decent face, but wasted on a nerdy look [glasses and high too high]
[2] hideous half man scrawny nerd
[3] computer nerd / geek / virgin
[4] clothes and face are fine but he’s too scrawny and girly hair
[5] glasses, scrawny, girly hair., tucked in tie is super try hard. Remember, what I said about the 400 year rule?
[6] scrawny, nerd, girly hair, skinny pants, tying sweater around waist just accentuates how girly thin he is.
[7] clothes are barely passable, scrawny, nerdy, glasses, hair ok, accessory ok
[8] ok style, pants too short, too scrawny, nerdy, glasses, girly hair
[8] ugly shoes, hair, skinny jeans, good blazer + dress shirt + vest combo. stop looking so girly
[10] ok style, girly hair, scrawny
[11] girly hair, silly over-sized coat, good pants tho. can be salvaged with a bit of help.
[12] total nerd. girly hair really makes him look like a girl, skinny jeans, scrawny.
[11] nerd
[12] nerd
[13] nerd - no body, glasses, not masculine enough to do long hair, gross quasi mustache
[14] don’t wear plunging necklines. It looks gay. He can sort of pull it off because he’s hot, but he has a very average chest.
[15] nerd
[16] nerd and fat too
[17] nerd
[18] girly, childish
[19] nerd needs to remove glasses, too many accessories hanging off his coat

Daniel Choi is a colossal nerd in almost every single image. Study his look and avoid every. single. one.

Bad Looks Level 3 - Mental retardation

[1] silly, but he’s very good looking. Don’t be fooled. This look doesn’t work.
[2] silly, but notice his body makes it look almost acceptable. He has broad shoulders and a chest. See how important the body is?

Bad Looks Level 4 - Androgyny

[1] decent face and body but totally ruined by lipstick? and girly mop hair
[2] scrawny
[3] Jung Ll-Woo is a South Korean male actor, scrawny, girly long hair
[4] Jang Keun Suk is South Korean male actor, scrawny, girly long hair.

Let’s find Asian men who fixed themselves as sources of inspiration and proof that it can be done. People need to see that it is possible.

Give me the following:

name
url
how long the transformation took
before picture as an imgur link
after picture as an imgur link
how his quality of life has changed.

Places to scour
http://visualbmi.com/ - fucking awesome. can search by weight and height, but not ethnicity. has link to reddit thread.

https://www.reddit.com/r/uglyduckling/
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/2ghsb8
https://www.reddit.com/r/progresspics/

grab some quote from the following

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/2ghsb8/physically_attractive_guys_does_reddit_exaggerate/

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/yiw14/people_that_have_gone_from_ugly_to_very/

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/3bux7z/serious_hotties_of_reddit_when_did_you_discover/ -

Overall it’s fantastic. That may sound conceded, but I really don’t care. It gave me so much confidence. I talk to anyone now with ease. I can do presentations. I will voice my opinion. I also learned that I love makeup and it’s become a wonderful hobby of mine. Realizing at around 18 that I was cute or whatever helped me from being so painfully shy and embarrassed by anything I did, to someone who stands tall, will chat your ear off and isn’t afraid to stick up for herself. It made me a happier person with the confidence I got.

^imagine what a nightmare it is for Asian men who are treated as if they’re shit.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/3p8g4a/hot_guys_how_often_are_you_rejected_is_dating_easy/ - interesting…probably not useful for here.

Donnie Yen. He is 52.

What the fuck is your excuse? [besides not having god-tier genetics]

Brendan Lai
2 years
+17 kg